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10 ways to ditch a negative and nagging Friend

10 ways to ditch a negative and nagging Friend

10 ways to ditch a negative and nagging Friend  

Emotionally exhausted?Getting belittled by Your “FRIEND” every now and then?Feeling like Your head will blow off by endless and useless complains of Your friend?

Believe me You have had enough. There is no point in staying where You are ridiculed time and again and Your self-respect is always at stake. Show such PALS (who really are not your friends) the way out of Your life.

I can understand Your situation where You don’t have a single clue as to how to get rid of such a nuisance. NO ISSUES DEAR.

Here we tell you the 10 flawless “FUNDAE”  of shunting such pessimistic people.

1) ASSERT YOURSELF

Stop being a Goody-Goody and Profess your point during a discussion where You know You are right. No matter what Your friend thinks about You. Do not bend Yourself even if it means going against Your friend. This will send a clear message to Your friend that You are not going to take any of his nuisance, no matter whatsoever. He will either mend his ways or will simply leave.

2) DO NOT PAY ATTENTION TO THEIR DOLDRUMS

By this time You know when Your friend is throwing tantrums. Don’t pay attention to such idiotic acts at all. Your friend will realize that You really won’t entertain unnecessary practices. When they start doing so, You can always say “Don’t start it again” or “Try something new”.

3) GET SARCASTIC

When You have reached a point that even Your eardrums have started paining due to endless complaints of Your pal, Straightaway throw some sarcasm. Like, “ Do You even sleep at night or are busy complaining even in the dreams???” or “Your mouth is that of a steel, It  keeps complaining but never pains”.

4) MAKE THEM RESPECT YOUR SELF-RESPECT

Hit back immediately when You realize that a fun is being made out of proportions. Never let them make You a laughing stock. As soon as You start realizing the limits getting crossed, just say “Take it easy” or “Maintain the line” in a dignified manner.

5) DO NOT TOLERATE THE PEEPING TOM

Stop them when they put their noses into Your personal matters every second. The best way to do so is bluntly asking “Why do You want to  know that??”

6) TAKE THE REINS IN YOUR HANDS

Move out of their shadows and be Your dominant self. Make them realize that they should do the work assigned to them lest they cannot expect favors from You.

   Let me be honest. The above mentioned ways still have some scope of maintaining the friendship if Your friend has some conscience and mends himself, but the next ones will surely draw a line above Your bond.

7) SERVE THEM THEIR OWN PILL

Point out to their shortcomings every now and then. Be their biggest critic and keep them on their toes until You achieve what You want to.

8) BE BRAVE AND STAY ALOOF

It is always better to conserve Your energy by staying alone rather than getting it drained by being with pessimists. It will offer You a great deal of peace as well.

 9) BE BRUTALLY UNCEREMONIOUS

 Make Your feelings known to Your tell them that You have had enough. Tell them that they really are messed up somewhere and need to sort themselves out.

10) MAKE NEW FRIENDS

Take You time and make Friends with people who are positive and make You feel refreshed and happy. Believe me, You will immediately strike a chord with people having same thoughts and mindset. You just need to GIVE SOME TIME TO TIME  and things will change-for better.

 

 

 

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Smart Sidhu have diverse industry exposure and extensive professional experience under the belt. Smartsidhu is multi-tasking team leader with high sense of responsibility towards deadlines and have an ability to present concepts and ideas with full conviction.

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Smart Sidhu have diverse industry exposure and extensive professional experience under the belt. Smartsidhu is multi-tasking team leader with high sense of responsibility towards deadlines and have an ability to present concepts and ideas with full conviction.

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