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How to keep your mother-in-law happy?

How to keep your mother-in-law happy?

How to keep your mother-in-law happy?

Want to hear something funny Mother-in-law this one word for most people would get their hackle up and you would get to hear a million horror stories. But there is a rare bread who actually likes and  bond with our mom-in-laws. You may wonder is it actually true or just a myth . well there are a gifted few who think and do things differently.

Here are 20 tips that these people might give you to make your mother-in-law happy:

  1. Understand her: she may be feeling suddenly downsized and left out of her sons life , give her a chance to be a part of your life.

  2. Communicate with her: this is a great way to get to know her and also to tell her that you care.

  3. Send her gifts: remembering her birth day and anniversary and occasionally sending gifts will make her feel special and loved.

  4. Listen to her advice: she may have your best interest at heat is will be good to listen to her sometimes.

  5. Visit her and invite her home: this will allow you to mingle with and her to feel a part of your family.

  6. Spend time with her: you could go out for a lunch or shopping what is important is that you have a good time together.

  7. Be her friend: it would be good to have a friend who has your best interest at heart.

  8. Appreciate her good point: it is a good idea to remind her that you appreciate her and her good points.

  9. Avoid conversations and topics tat you know are causes of conflict.

  10. Give her space to spend alone time with your husband after all she may be missing out on time with her son and will truly appreciate it.

  11. Make her a part of family celebrations such as birthday, anniversaries etc.

  12. Treat her like a mother figure: giving her the proper love and respect can get you a second mom.

  13. Remind you self that she is a blessing in disguise, someone who keeps you on your toes and gets the best out of you.

  14. Holding your tongue in certain situations could avert major conflicts.

  15. Don’t bicker this can only result in conflicts and unhappiness.

  16. Focus on her positive qualities : this will help you realize that she has good points that make her unique.

  17. Remember that she is important to your son

  18. Let her be a part of your children’s lives, keep in mind that they are her grandchildren and she is an important part of their lives.

  19. Help her out either with house work or when she is need of your help

  20. Remember that having a good relationship with your mother-in-law is part of having a strong family.

 Anindita Dass is armed with engineering degree, moved on to creative writing. Apart from this Annie loves sketching and reading novels. Not to forget, Annie is rebel of a girl is what the world thinks she is. Truth is-so does she!

 

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Anindita Dass
Anindita Dass is armed with engineering degree, moved on to creative writing. Apart from this Annie loves sketching and reading novels. Not to forget, Annie is rebel of a girl is what the world thinks she is. Truth is-so does she!

About Anindita Dass

Anindita Dass
Anindita Dass is armed with engineering degree, moved on to creative writing. Apart from this Annie loves sketching and reading novels. Not to forget, Annie is rebel of a girl is what the world thinks she is. Truth is-so does she!
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