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Why is it important to forgive in relationship

Why is it important to forgive in relationship

Why is it important to forgive in relationship

“A happy marriage is the union of two good forgivers.” – Robert Quillen

A marriage is a life time commitment that requires time, patients and understanding and any relationship that misses out on any of these qualities is bound to be unhappy.

You may have married for love but that doesn’t mean that from here on everything is going to perfect. A marriage is the union between 2 individuals who may have different opinions, point of views, hopes and desire and in the process of achieving their hopes and desire they may inadvertently hurt their better halves. The one thing that is certain in all marriages is that at some point in time you may feel let down, hurt or disappointed by your life partner. Such events over time have the potential to corrode and break marriages.

Responding to hurt:

There are 2 ways to respond to a negative response ort action from your partner the first one is to react in the same way and hurt them back while the second is to forgive. Hurting and reacting negatively only increase the wound and makes things worse, on the other hand forgiveness allows you to express your hurt in a positive way while also telling your partner that you are disappointed in what they have done but have let go of your anger towards them .as someone has rightly said “Forgiveness is me giving up my right to hurt you for hurting me.”

Benefits of forgiveness:

Research suggests that forgiveness is good for you and the relationship as people who forgive are physically healthier, have better mental health and also improves the bond between your partner and you.

Bryant H. McGill says “There is no love without forgiveness, and there is no forgiveness without love.” So keep the love in your marriage alive forgive and don’t let the toxicity of small moments of anger destroy a happy marriage.

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Anindita Dass
Anindita Dass is armed with engineering degree, moved on to creative writing. Apart from this Annie loves sketching and reading novels. Not to forget, Annie is rebel of a girl is what the world thinks she is. Truth is-so does she!

About Anindita Dass

Anindita Dass
Anindita Dass is armed with engineering degree, moved on to creative writing. Apart from this Annie loves sketching and reading novels. Not to forget, Annie is rebel of a girl is what the world thinks she is. Truth is-so does she!

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