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How to improve your relationships with your parents?

How to improve your relationships with your parents?

How to improve your relationships with your parents?

 

So, today we’re going to talk about something very different yet very important. A lot of us have a strained relationship with our parents or family. We are quite close to our grandparents. And that’s for a reason. Family is virtually and literally everything a person could have. You have no money, but you have a family who loves you? Well, who cares that much about money? You’re happy even right now! However, we tend to forget or maybe our parents forgot the importance of family and didn’t really pay as much attention towards you while you were growing up.

It hurts to think of all the things your dad did when he stumbled through the door drunk and sweaty. It hurts to even think about the things your mother talked about in front of your colleagues from the office and now you don’t have as many friends as you used to. I understand. I totally do! You’ve been ignored, made fun of, taunted, let down and crushed and stamped upon a million times in the past. And now you won’t talk to them because you’re afraid it’s going to happen again.

There’s a quote that made my heart swell for even those that I hated… “Everyone behaves the best the can based on the way they think and see the situation or the person.” I’m going to tell you the same about your parents. It’s hard to let it all go. I agree that it’s hard to forgive. But it isn’t something that you’re doing for them, it’s for yourself. Forgiveness is a gift you give to yourself so that you can let go of the ugly past and live in the beautiful present.

If your father apologizes and his actions say that too, then just let go and cherish the moments you have left with your old man. If your stepmom thinks you’re a jerk, prove her wrong. Make everything right between the two of you. Even if she’s a stepmom, she’s the only motherly figure you’re ever going to have. So be good.

Why not look at it this way? You’ve already sabotaged your relationship with them, might as well just tell them crudely what all they have done to hurt you and the mistakes they’ve done to make you feel this way about them. Let them get their side of story in front of you. If it gets better, well and good. If not, you already didn’t have them so you don’t exactly lose anyone. In most cases, it works. People build new fresh relationships and the house starts feeling like home again.

I know you can do it. Just go over, talk, yell, and settle it out because there’s no one else like family and it’s better to say all those things than to keep them inside till it’s too late. You know you love them and need them. Don’t let the past ruin your future too.

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Ankit Kandoi
Armed with engineering degree, Co-founder of RoofnRoom.com and Fidato Research & Services.He is Talker. Listener. Foodie. Music lover. Traveler. Singer. A colour outside the colour box.

About Ankit Kandoi

Ankit Kandoi
Armed with engineering degree, Co-founder of RoofnRoom.com and Fidato Research & Services.He is Talker. Listener. Foodie. Music lover. Traveler. Singer. A colour outside the colour box.

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