Reasons why we have stopped showing love and affection to our loved ones
Nowadays people can’t ensure enough time aside to provide the loved ones with the beautiful gift of listening.
Date is not fixed for any special meeting.
Confirm a date for a meeting at home or somewhere else and arrange enough time for a coffee or any drink to share the thoughts which is quite unusual these days.
People do not keep their anger at bay.
During stressful times try to think of this image and if an ember flies from a fireplace onto a particular rug, it will definitely result in burning a hole. This anger remains a finest reason for some conflicts which restricts oneself to show any kind of affection.
Exchanging gift has also become a non-materialistic way to express love.
Earlier, gifts used to be a nice way to express appreciation for people that do not really involve a lot of feelings and talk but now this assure a feel of being very per formative and self-centred in a weird way which is also another reason for not getting enough way to show affection and love to others.
Sharing thoughts, ideas, and actions are not appreciated.
Something that feels more comfortable and also resonates more with the way is the experience of close relationships and tell someone the great feeling of everything which is now becoming a difficult task for both the loved ones as they turned out to be more fake and less realistic approach.
Life has made people busier with the work.
People have involved themselves in their own hectic lives which leave no time for doing anything lending few hours to the loved ones. This has been the major reasons for the misunderstandings and the recent breakups among couples who ultimately fail to understand the mutual feelings. The utmost care and responsibilities are carried away very lightly with the lack of time which results in dwindling affection towards others.
People are not helpful with the arising problems in the lives.
The key at this point describes to actually listen to what the other person need and try to involve in the things that they will find helpful and not what they personally think would be helpful. Little acts of service are considered to be a big part of the way that ultimately shows affection to people, though they might not always realize it.
Talents are not appreciated.
This point is somehow related closely to the previous one and the ways to show affection gets with it effectively as to express love for other need a real approach towards the feeling which needs to be directly conveyed. No talent tasks are appreciated as it will be entirely a non- materialistic approach.
Understanding between the loved ones fails.
Enough understanding is not ensured between a couple which is one of the major reasons for restricting oneself to show affection and love towards others.
Own ways for letting the things work in favour.
Everyone owes a great responsibility in performing the assigned task which can have different way in approach. This can contribute to be one of the reasons for people not expressing the real feelings for others.
Feeling of possessiveness.
This emotion is really disastrous which can convert a great situation into worst if one adopts the particular.
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