Being in your 20s is a crucial period in any person’s life: It’s a in-between phase from being a kid with no clue to an adult. During this decade, you will get a degree, find an apartment get a job, paying bills, creating new relationships and really grow up!
However this time isn’t all about money and gloomy things, to make this period bump-free and smooth, here are all the things one must give up to ensure we all maximize the opportunities and never forsake one moment during these special years:
Give up being carefree about money:
Living by the edge when it comes to money isn’t a good option! Plus with credit cards and loans coming into your life at this time learning how to bring about a budget for necessary expenses, incoming money and savings can go a long way.
Give up Interview troubles:
Your 20s are a prime time to jumpstart a career as your job hunt will start. If you are a good interviewer it can make a big impact since companies will often remember you months (or even years) ahead when another position arises. Interviews are also important for networking purposes and building relationships across the business world
Give up bad skin:
Your skin has now become free of acne and pimples and is free from wrinkles too! To keep it this way, educate yourself how to keep it this way.Do not go to bed with makeup on as it will clog your skin. Wash your face every night and wear sunscreen.
Give up relationships which put you down:
Anyone in their twenties will spend a lot of time looking for companionship and a lot of time mending their broken hearts. The fact of the matter is that relationships at this time may not be stable or permanent but friends will be there to comfort you through and be a support system.Great friends are hard to find and getting over a best friend is worse than getting over a relationship.
Give up attention to body stereotypes:
No skinny isn’t in, a big booty isn’t what is hep, nor does neon make you a hippy. At this time in our lives, our bodies have fully grown and your childlike frame would have gone. Accept your body and all its assets and dress accordingly. Do not join in the trend game and go on crash diets to get thin nor buy the clothes all the famous people wear because it is accepted as cool. Find out what kind of jeans are the right fit for your figure, what size dress is most appropriate for your shape, and embrace what you are working with.
Give up too much trust in others:
You learn by making mistakes but too much faith in yourself or others can be harmful. It could be a slip up in a relationship or at your workplace, figure out what you could have done otherwise. But promise yourself you will not let it happen again.
Give up your weakness:
As you begin to take on your individuality in your 20s, it’s vital to learn when to stand up for yourself. Get yourself the promotion you deserve, tell your partner when he/she treating you poorly, let that waiter know when she gave you the wrong dish. If you never say anything, nothing will ever change and you will be left helpless.
Give up your ego:
You need to develop confidence in your 20s, sometimes it’s hard to know when to keep that contained and not let it become over-confidence. You cannot always be right and you will have a lot of seniors who you will have to obey irrespective of right and wrong. You need to stand up for yourself, but also to back off when required.
But do not give up the child in you, You would think growing up is the primary aim of your 20’s but but you’re still young enough to have fun! Your 20s are only a stepping-stone, a phrase from childhood to adulthood. So you can have a wild night out with your friends, travel to exotic places, taste everything you want,buy trashy shoes, be weird and goofy.
Stay resilient, stay beautiful, stay self-assured and of course be yourself.
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